I am sorry in advance to the daily users that help so many people here for saying what I am about to say, but I myself have been in the same situation as other people here and giving your daughter electricity, gas and water is way more important that toys at Christmas. Me and my children have together agreed to put aside all of these things to maintain our home and stay warm during the winter, those gifts do no good to her if she does not have a home to enjoy them in. Again, I am sorry to say this but stop worrying about gifts and toys and take care of immediate needs for your children they will understand and you will be a stronger family for it.
Many blessings to you Debbie